Thoughts on birth, adoption, race, special needs, parenting, chaos, and life with four kids- all with a chewy liberal center.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
The pictures, hopefully
In Ethiopia and meeting K.
One interesting thing is that with the kids we have been taken to the front of most lines. We got to the front of the security line, the front of the visa line and the front of the baggage screening line. And our bags all made it from Amsterdam so that was a relief, especially since there was no meal service on the last leg of the flight due to the weather and the kids were starving when we finally got to the hotel.
For those of you traveling with Holt, the hotel is nice, but definitely not the Hilton. The staff is very attentive and they are doting on the kids, which is making them behave badly since when I try to discipline them, I get told "it's okay." Bring extra layers- it is cold in the hotel rooms and even during the days it is only probably in the 60's and raining off and on. Also, if you are a light sleeper bring earplugs as it is pretty noisy outside the hotel- between the cars and the dogs and the rooster- sleeping can be challenging. However- it is next to the care center so this morning we were able to walk over and meet the children.
K. was in her crib along with several other babies. When we walked in they said "which on do you think she is?" No pressure there! The kids started to walk to one bed when I saw her in her bed. She is still very small and definitely has some motor delays (so Julie M-if you are reading this, I'll be seeing you soon.) I think she found her brothers and sisters a bit overwhelming, but in her defense, I find them overwhelming sometimes too.
We spent about 2 hours at the care center and then left for lunch and a brief driving tour of the area. Then B. brought the kids to the hotel for a nap and I went back to the care center with the other families to spend about 2 more hours with the kids. The care center is a beautiful old house. It is bright and spacious and the nannies seem to dote and love on all the children. They all appear to be doing so well. We were able to play with several of them while we were there and we tickled and talked to all the babies. I was able to get her to laugh and smile so I think so far our transition is going pretty well. We will visit with her again tomorrow for a couple of hours and then we think we will be able to take custody on Monday. We are being told though that we should not have the children out with us unless we have a good reason so I suspect we will have to sign her back into the care center when we go out into the city. After we said goodnight to the children, we went for pizza -Not brave I know, but for this trip I think the familiar is better than anything for the kids.
Hopefully we will have pictures later today.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
for those of you who have asked about the bear
He was originally from the Hard Rock Cafe in Niagra Falls and has been as far away as Paris, London, China and Australia as well as all over the US. In Amsterdam he was able to meet Van Gogh bear at the Hard Rock Amsterdam
Our last day here
Today we started at the Van Gogh museum. One nice thing about seeing art museums with young children is how fast you can see everything and still feel like you got your money's worth. We were disappointed thought that "Starry Night" is not on display here, but in New York. A. did a report on Van Gogh for school so it was "boring cause I already know all this stuff"
Then we took the kids to this underground playground. It is an old converted walkway (the kind which allow pedestrians to cross under busy intersections) There were 5 or 6 of the those maze climbers (you know the like the habitrails for kids that they have at Chuck E Cheeses) They were rated by age, though to keep the biggest kids separate from the smaller ones. There were lots of chairs for the adults and they even provided books and magazines for us to read. Now maybe this is a cultural thing and the children here are better behaved than at home but based on what I saw it is a universal truth that if you put a group of children together in a large space designed for movement and you don't have any adult supervision the end result is Lord of the Flies just without the pig. Poor D. was walking past a child when he pushed her for no apparent reason. She just shook it off (but if you know her then you know the risk that kid took). He was only 2 or 3 himself, but his grownup was no where to be found. After about an hour or so, we had had enough and came back to the hotel for a brief nap (unfortunately, no one actually napped)
We ended our trip here with a canal tour that had a pizza and ice cream dinner. We actually docked so that Domino's could deliver the pizza to the boat. The meal didn't arrive though until about 8pm so the kids were a little crabby until then, but after stuffing themselves everyone was much better behaved.
We are now back, trying to re-pack everything but I thought I'd post one last time before our internet times out. Wish us luck and safe and healthy travels out next post should be from Ethiopia (although I may not be able to post until Friday night Ethiopia time)
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
About photos....
Windmills and Walking
The kids all seemed to enjoy the area- there were farm animals which D. loved and plenty of things to take photos of which the boys loved. X. had a disposable camera which he used up within the first 8 hours of our arrival in Amsterdam so he has been using my small digital camera. Hopefully it will survive his "photography". We went to the Hard Rock Café for dinner which the kids enjoyed until I wouldn't let them each get $35 teddy bears in the gift shop. They did get over it when we stopped for ice cream though.
I thought that we walked a lot in China, but I think Amsterdam might be even more walking. A. has been holding up (and keeping up with us) like a champ- the little kids are getting to ride in the stroller so it is not nearly as challenging for them. My shoes (which I wear all the time) are given me a blister which makes me think me I don't walk nearly as much in normal life as I think I do. That would explain some things though….
We got back to hotel and a helpful KLM employee got on the phone and found the missing bag on the ground in Detroit. Apparently they have been looking for the bag using the wrong description. There is no "car seat bag" on their chart so they entered it in as a "duffle bag/back pack" (despite the fact I said it was "blob shaped with wheels") and reported it as "blue/turquoise" despite the fact I said it was a blue/gray color") The bag is supposed to be on the last flight out tonight (but probably on the first flight on Wednesday) so we are likely going to go to the airport on Thursday, pick it up and turn around a check it back in for the trip to Ethiopia. We hope it (and the other 4) make it to Ethiopia.
Monday, June 30, 2008
At least we have some clothes!!
Today we spent the day at the science center NEMO. The kids had a lot of fun running through all the exhibits, even though they have a science center at home, for some reason Bernoulli's exhibit is more fun at other science centers. They also had a replica of a 1700 ship docked outside the museum. The kids also liked pretending to be pirates and running around. D's favorite part was this recording of a dog in one of the mock up scenes on the ship. She tried and tried to find the real dog and just couldn't quite figure it out. The kids are less crabby today after a good nights sleep. It's been better adjusting to the time change here when we can do what we want when we want. Hopefully it will help them to be pleasant later this week in Ethiopia.
That's about all from here. The kids are loving the French fries that they serve everywhere and tomorrow we are hoping to find a good pancake place for lunch. Pancakes are very popular as well.



