Tuesday, March 20, 2012

D's Birthday Interview

How old are you today?  6

What did you pick for your birthday dinner?  Bob Evans (carryout since I was too filthy from cleaning the basement to be seen in public)

What is your favorite food?  Chocolate Chip Ice cream cones

What is your favorite color?  Why?  Pink.  Cause it's the best color

If you could live anywhere where would you live?  Why?  Texas.  Because it's fun there (See here, and here and here and here if you want to know what she means)

Who is your best friend?  Kaitlyn and Lizzie

What do you want to be when you grow up?  A nurse

What is something that you do well?  Calendar at school

What do you want to do better this year?  Be good

Photos of the birthday girl coming soon....

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Weekend Wisdom

I know my country has not perfected itself. At times, we've struggled to keep the promise of liberty and equality for all of our people. We've made our share of mistakes, and there are times when our actions around the world have not lived up to our best intentions.

Monday, March 12, 2012

How Disney Taught My Daughter a Lesson (I wish they hadn't)

 I am no fan of the Disney company.  
 
There I said it.
 
As a diversity educator there is no end to the topics I can talk about using Disney movies.  From the racism and sexism in Peter Pan (when they didn't know better) to the racism in Pocahontas (when they did know better) Disney has consistently dropped the ball on making sure their character line, and particularly the Princesses, reflect the girls who consume their movies and products by the billions.


 I could go on about the raging -isms that appear in Disney movies- not just the ones made 60 years ago but the ones made since 1985 as well- but no where did the miss the mark as with their first Black Princess.  Never mind the prince was white and the villain was black (same old tired stereotypes) or that the princess is actually a frog for the majority of the movie.  


Never mind the flaws in the movie because there was merchandising. 

I could buy hundred of dollars worth of merchandise in which my child could see a princess who looks like her-  a Tiana doll and blanket and clothes and party invitations and books all with images of a princess that looks like her.  

Or so I thought.  Then K chose this book at a book fair...
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 I didn't read it first and while I didn't expect it to be fine literature I bought it because right now D loves the movie Tangled and it has brought up some hair issues for K and I felt that it wouldn't hurt for her to see Tiana in the same book as Rapunzel.  

So K starts to read this book, which as you can tell from the cover is one story about Ariel. one about Tiana and one about Rapunzel.  

In the story about Ariel- her image appears 18 times in 22 pages.

In the story about Rapunzel- her image appears 18 times in 22 pages

In the story about Tiana- in 22 pages her image appears....

NOT. ONE. TIME. AT. ALL. 

In 22 freaking pages she is a frog on EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. 

And sorry but I am going to call it what it is- Racism.
(and no- it is not burn a cross on your lawn racism- it is death by a thousand cuts racism- but seriously, racism is racism) 

And to be very clear (for those who will say that K would have never noticed and I am over sensitive) I did not notice it.  If I had, I would have never brought the book in the first place.  It was my daughter, looking for a picture of her favorite princess in her new book, who, in tears, brought it to me.

When my princess loving four year old brings me a book- a book that clearly shows Tiana on the cover -and tells me "Mommy, Tiana is not in my book.  Why not?" please explain to me what answer I can possibly give her that will convince her that Tiana is as beautiful and as valued as the other princesses, when she is holding evidence to the contrary in her hands.

Disney might have a Black princess but it's really just the same old story
 

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Yo, Is This Racist?

In lieu of Weekend Wisdom I want to give a plug to this blogger.  I found his site a couple of weeks ago and it is absolutely fabulous.  


Anyone interested in becoming more anti-racist should check it out.  Here's a sample....



* one word of caution- he uses pretty colorful language in most posts. 

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Just a Little Corny


(this is actually from Fall 2010 when he was in 5th grade but I just found it the other day buried in the depth of my hard drive)

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