Thursday, May 31, 2012

Possibly the Most Important Piece of Paperwork for an International Adoptee

International Adoptive Parents-
For the love of God , get your child's certificate of citizenship.  
And get it as soon as possible.
Even if you have to pay for it.  
It might be the best $400 you ever spend.

Joao Herbert was adopted from Brazil at the age of eight by a family in Ohio. A charge for attempting to sell marijuana, although a first offense, landed him in immigration detention, after which he was deported to Brazil in 2000. Joao Herbert was murdered in Brazil in May 2004.

Korean adoptee Matthew Scherer learned he lacked citizenship when he applied for a U.S. passport. He subsequently obtained permanent resident status, but upon traveling to Korea was identified by the Korean government by his original Korean name and now is blocked by Korean law from returning to the U.S. and threatened with conscription into the Korean army.

Jennifer Haynes was adopted at eight from India and sexually abused by her adoptive father, after which she passed through 50 foster homes on her way to adulthood. Married to a U.S. citizen and mother of two young children, Haynes was nonetheless deported to India in 2008.

Adopted as a toddler from Thailand in 1979 by a family in Florida, John Gaul completed a sentence for theft and check fraud in 1996 after the new immigration law went into effect. A judge was prevented under the new law from acknowledging adoption as an extenuating circumstance, and he was deported to Thailand in 1999.

Tatiana Mitrohina was born in Russia in 1978 with physical deformities that led to her adoption at fourteen to California. She suffered from childhood-related PTSD and postpartum depression. Following a charge of abuse of her son, the court recommended counseling and medication, but Immigration and Customs Enforcement have detained her in preparation for deportation.

How many more????

Monday, May 28, 2012

Lego Friends- A Dilemma

So you may remember this post about D's first experience with Lego Friends but I have hit a new dilemma.  Turns out that despite their obvious sexism in the marketing and design (Legos with boobs?  Seriously?) that they do have a sort of positive aspect as well.  They are one of the VERY FEW lines of toys that feature minority characters portrayed equally to the majority ones as well.  A quick check of the Disney aisle (or the general doll aisle) will show you what I mean.  Or check out this story.

And there are a few kits that show the characters in a "non traditional" (although still pink and pastel) world.  
(again- far more then you find in many other lines of "girl" toys)- like the vet clinic, the 4x4 and the invention/robotics workshop. 
 I especially hope Lego gets the hint and adds more kits like the Invention/robotics workshop



So yeah- they are still a hot mess of sexism and stereotypes but for a parent trying to find characters to match their  brown children they are some of the better offerings out there.
So you see my dilemma......

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Weekend Wisdom


All these boundaries - Africa, Asia, Malaysia, America - are set by men. But you don't have to look at boundaries when you are looking at a man - at the character of a man. The question is: What do you stand for? Are you a follower, or are you a leader?
 
-Hakeem Olajuwon

Friday, May 25, 2012

What the ----?, Pastor Worley (and his defender)

Dear Pastor Worley-
What you said was reprehensible but here's a little life lesson for you-
When you are under fire for saying something hateful, you need to be careful about who you get to defend you.  Especially when they are talking to a national news outlet
This was a train wreck

Thursday, May 24, 2012

I Thought High School Musical Would Wait Until 1st Grade

at least....
But alas, they used it for part of the Kindergarten school play at the day care D attends half day (since real Kindergarten is only half day around these parts)

Luckily- it is pretty cute (and they didn't actually watch the movie)





Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Parenting Win!!!


 X asked for a dragon cake for his birthday party....




Enjoying it at his party....



Score one for Mom!

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